The Quitting Culture that is Plaguing Our Society Today.
The problem with our society today is that we are plagued by a culture of quitting. From the moment we start something new, there is a voice in our head that questions our decision. It tells us that we are too tired or too busy to stick to our plan for today. A task like working out can quickly get shoved to the wayside and overpowered by our desire to stay home. The moment we start to question our decision to accomplish something is the moment we have lost our battle with addiction, and in this case, the addiction is our desire to quit.
We need to open our eyes to the impact of daily movement on our overall health and happiness. The COVID-19 pandemic has left a significant mark on our mental health, and we cannot afford to ignore the importance of consistent physical activity. We must recognize that movement is a critical factor in maintaining a healthy body and mind. The problem is, people have become so accustomed to quitting that we have lost sight of what it means to be consistent.
Allen Carr is a renowned author who wrote a number of self-help books, including his most popular book “The Easy Way to Stop Smoking”. Carr’s method challenges the reader’s underlying beliefs about smoking by helping them to recognize that smoking is not an enjoyable experience but rather an addiction that controls the smoker. This approach is particularly relevant for people who struggle to quit smoking because they may have underlying beliefs that they need cigarettes to cope with stress or anxiety or that smoking is a pleasurable experience.
The same principles that apply to quitting smoking can be applied to quitting any unhealthy habit or behavior. Often, we rely on sheer willpower to try and overcome our addictions or bad habits, but as we know, this approach rarely works. We need to challenge the underlying beliefs and thought patterns that drive our behavior in order to break free from the cycle of addiction.
For example, if we have a tendency to indulge in unhealthy foods or skip workouts, we need to examine the beliefs that underlie these behaviors. Are we telling ourselves that we deserve a treat after a long day at work, or that exercise is too difficult and time-consuming? These beliefs can be powerful drivers of behavior, and by challenging them, we can begin to break free from their grip and make healthier choices. The key is to recognize that quitting is not just about willpower, but about changing the way we think about ourselves, our habits, and our relationship with health and wellness.
But it’s not just about our individual efforts. The people we surround ourselves with can have a significant impact on our ability to commit to a healthy lifestyle. Think about it – take a look at the 10 people closest to you. How many of them prioritize regular physical activity? How many times have you been met with comments like “you’re going to the gym again?” or “how long do you actually think you can keep this up?” We live in a society that is all too quick to judge and criticize, often relishing in the failure of others just so they can say “I knew they couldn’t do it.” This kind of negativity can be brutal and it’s important to recognize how it can contribute to our own lack of motivation and discipline.
When we’re constantly surrounded by negativity and criticism, it can be challenging to stay committed to a healthy lifestyle. It’s important to identify and distance ourselves from people who are holding us back, whether that means negative friends or family members who don’t prioritize fitness, or even acquaintances on social media who are constantly promoting an unhealthy lifestyle. Instead, we should focus on building a support system of people who are committed to their own health and wellness and who are willing to cheer us on and hold us accountable in our own journey.
One way to build a supportive environment is by finding a workout partner who shares similar goals and motivation. Having a friend who is committed to the same fitness routine can be incredibly motivating and make workouts feel less like a chore and more like a social activity. Alternatively, a personal trainer can provide accountability and encouragement, helping us to stay committed and motivated to our fitness goals.
It’s also important to be mindful of the language we use when talking about health and fitness. Negative or judgmental language can contribute to a toxic environment that undermines our progress and leaves us feeling discouraged. Instead, we should strive to use positive language that reinforces the importance of self-care and celebrates our achievements along the way.
So, as you finish reading this article, I want you to take a moment and reflect on your personal relationship with fitness and quitting. Have you found yourself giving up on a fitness routine because it just got too hard? Or have you let the negativity of others discourage you from prioritizing your health?
The truth is, we all struggle with consistency at times, but it’s important to recognize the impact that daily movement can have on our overall well-being. We need to break free from the culture of quitting and start prioritizing self-care and positive reinforcement. It’s time to surround ourselves with people who lift us up and encourage us to be our best selves, rather than tearing us down with their negativity. With experienced coaches who specialize in habit formation and behavior change, Blended is uniquely equipped to help you develop new, positive habits that will replace old, destructive ones. Let’s make a commitment to ourselves and each other to build a sustainable fitness routine, one small step at a time.
Join Blended today and let us help you on your journey to a life of perseverance, growth, and lasting wellness. Remember, quitting is not an option when you have the support of a community that truly cares.
